The
Anima and the Animus
by Debbie Luke
by Debbie Luke
The anima and the animus are archetypes. The terms come
from the Latin, meaning “soul”. Archetypes are patterns of behavior that only
take on meaning when they are applied to an individual’s understanding of the
self. Jung said that “every man carries a woman within himself”. Goethe called
this “the eternal feminine”.
The anima/animus exist in the subconscious, many times
appearing in dreams, many times influenced by the relationship the person had
with their father or mother, ie, if a person had an overbearing mother, their
dreams may contain negative female antagonists.
In many fairy tales, the animus takes the part of male
antagonists-perhaps robbers or other villains who force the female protagonist
out of her comfort zone and into a series of challenges that build her
assertiveness and independence, helping her discover her dormant strengths and
talents.
The anima has the effect of helping the male
protagonist develop receptiveness, creativity, the capacity for personal love,
recognition of feelings, and developing and trusting intuition.
At the most basic and
simplistic level what happens is that men begin to develop their capacity for
relationship and must come to terms with emotions, vulnerability and needs,
while women begin to become more decision and action oriented and in the
process claim their independence, courage, power and wisdom. At midlife women
are called to decide and do while men are called to nurture.*
These characteristics are
analogous with the concept of yin and yang energy. Integrating both aspects
brings wholeness to the individual.
* www.lessons4living.com
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